The derogatory definition of mother-in-law does not fit my mother-in-law. By her example, I’ve learned some lessons that I hope I will practice as mother-in-law one day:
Don’t give advice unless you’re asked
Keep yourself occupied with your own hobbies so you don’t meddle into other people’s business
The younger generation will do things differently. It doesn’t mean they are wrong
If they are wrong, let them learn from their mistake
Your way is not the best way, no matter how old you are, or how much experience you have
It’s ok to try and fail. Just keep trying and you will get it right
Don’t be bothered by every little thing; life is too short
Make yourself useful
Complaining doesn’t get you any where
If you want to be treated well, treat others well
Go to bed when you’re tired, get up when you’re awake